The Connections Theme

Marco Polo Base Camp Tile

You might have noticed a common theme across our Latter Day Connections site, social media and chat groups. Our main inspiration is a campfire.

Why the Campfire?

Around a campfire is where we gather for fun, to share stories and form friendships. (And eat snacks of course – smores anybody?) This idea of shared stories, having some laughs and forming friendships is exactly the kind of connections we, the founders, had formed over early 2020. We realised that although there are multiple dating sites around, there aren’t many options for those wanting to connect without the pressure or expectation of dating. Wanting to help others find invaluable connections like our own, we formed our ‘campsites’ across various social media and our favourite video chat app – Marco Polo. (BYO snacks)

kimson-doan-people around fire on the beach at sunset
kimson-doan-people around fire on the beach at sunset

Our Website and social media share the campfire themed images. Our super fun Marco Polo groups are all named after Mountain Ranges and National Parks. (AKA: awesome places for outdoor adventures and fun around the campfire.)

All the links to our social sites can be found on our Member Connections page. Soon we will be adding some specialty groups to your connection options, so be sure to keep checking in. We sincerely hope that by connecting on any of our platforms, you will find support, laughter and lifelong friendships while we share this journey through ‘singledomhoodness’

Welcome to your Latter Day Connections

Connections site map - members tab

Welcome to Latter-Day Connections, we are thrilled to have you join us! You have already set up your password and logged into the Members section of our site, so let’s look at all the other options you have to connect!


Our ‘Blogspiration‘ tab is the home of our blog. Only members who are logged in can access the blog. Here you will find a range of inspirational, informative, or funny articles. We love feedback so get those comment chains going. If you would like to submit an item to be considered for the blog contact our team.

Connections site map - blog tab

Member Connections

This is the main location to see all ways you can connect with each other. Here are the links to join the Facebook group, follow our Instagram page, find out about specialty groups we have available, and much more!

Connections site map - members tab


This is where you find our calendar of events. It shows both online and live events. We will also post events from our affiliate groups and events that members have organised that they would like to share with our members.

Connections Site Map - events tab

Clicking the plus link, as pointed out by the red arrow, integrates this google calendar into your own calendar system. That way you can keep up with events as they are posted. Please note that the default for our calendar is Mountain Time USA. The event times should automatically adjust for the default time zone when integrated with your own calendaring system. Remember, when submitting an event for us to add to the calendar, please translate your start and end times into Mountain Time.

Connections Site Map - event submission

Joining our Marco Polo Groups

In an effort to ensure that only Latter Day Connections members join our Marco Polo groups, you will be manually added to Marco Polo by one of our founders. If you selected to connect using Marco Polo on your membership form, then you will be contacted shortly after to get you added to one of our Marco Polo groups. Please make sure you have already downloaded the Marco Polo App to your phone. To join one of our specialty groups, simply let one of the founders know. If you originally chose to not to be in our Marco Polo Connections, but decide later that you would like to be, again, just contact one of the founders, and we can arrange for you to be added to a group.

When connecting using Marco Polo, please take a moment to review our Marco Polo Etiquette . If you are new to Marco Polo, we have some helpful tips for you here.

More Connections!

You do not have to join our Marco Polo groups to be a Latter Day Connections member. Alternatively, you might simply choose to join our private Facebook Group, follow our Instagram, or log in to our website to keep up with our blogs and our calendar. You are in control of how and where you make your connections.

Go Make Connections!

Our aim is to help everyone find valuable connections that offer the support you need and have some fun along the way. Everyone is welcome around our campfire. Please reach out if you have any issues, comments or concerns. We’re always here to help!

Marco Polo 101

Jennas super awesome Marco Polo how to use tips

Are you new to Marco Polo? Here’s some things you may want to know (Please note that these photos and instructions are NOT Polo Plus, they are the general version of Marco Polo)

Buttons to Use While Watching a Polo

The Purple Arrow is pointing at the double speed button. This will make the ‘polo’ go at double speed, so you can get through messages faster

The Blue Bracket contains options for emoticons you can send while listening to a polo

The Green Arrow is pointing at “the bubble” button. You can leave a short reply or “bubble” on someone’s message by pressing and holding down that button

The Red Arrow is pointing at the happy face that brings that menu up and down. If you are not seeing those options, then tap that face. If those options are covering something you want to see, then tap the face to make the options go down

What the Hey is going on All Over the Screen? (Part 1)

At the bottom of the screen you see various rectangles of people who have left messages. You can tap on a rectangle to skip back or forward to a particular message. No, we cannot adjust what frame that rectangle captures, generally it is the most unflattering face you were making during your message. My theory is that the creators of Marco Polo just have an awesome sense of humor.

The Blue Circle showing an emoticon response we talked about above while listening to that message. Nope, you can’t see who did it.

The Purple Circle shows the name and date/time stamp for the polo you are currently listening to. This is a great way to learn names. You can also tease people who are awake at crazy times. Please note that this has been translated to your time zone, so the time might not be quite as crazy for them.

The Green Arrow shows that a “bubble” message was left on that polo. It will show a picture of the person who left the bubble

The Green Bracket shows all the “bubbles” left on the message you are listening to. You can tap on any of the circles to hear that message played.

The Red Arrow is the same happy face from before. Tapping the happy face makes the bubbles appear or disappear along with the menu.

What the Hey is going on All Over the Screen? (Part 2)

The Blue Arrow shows you where you can see who is currently watching polos in the group. If they leave an emoticon, you will see it cover their face.

The Orange Circle is showing you where each member is up to in the group. This shows the last polo message that these people watched. This can be helpful as you can see which polo the people listening above are leaving emoticons for. So don’t get confused when they leave a laughing face on Fredrika’s message, as you are currently telling a sad story, they just might not be caught up to you yet.

To send a message simply press the “Start” button. This will then change to be a “Stop” button, that you press when you are done.

Be sure to give it a good ol’ press, it can be frustrating when you realise half way through your ‘polo’ that it hasn’t started recording yet. Also, make sure you hit that stop button good and proper otherwise your friends might see more than you want them to.

But Wait – There’s More!

The Orange Circle shows the button that gives you access to the fun effects menu. You can change the camera effect, voice filter, add text to your screen, or draw something on your screen.

The Green Circle is showing the camera flip button. Use that to change to the camera at the back of your phone.

The Purple Circle is showing the text block option! I’ll show that in a picture below.

These options are available only when you are about to record a polo, the unicorn and switch camera remain available to use during your recording.

Once you hit the text block button, your keyboard will come up and you can type a message that will be sent as a text block. This is great for asking questions and sharing fun links with the group.

The Green Arrow is showing you the ‘x’ you can use to close out of this window, if you have made it here by mistake, or changed your mind.

The Yellow Arrow is pointing at the circle that allows you to change the background color of your text block message.

The Purple Arrow is pointing at the “send” button. Press that arrow when you are finished with your message.

Photo Polo – The Last of the Fun Buttons

The Orange Arrow is pointing at the “Photo Polo” button. Once you select this option, you will be able to pick one of any of the pictures on your phone to share with the group. You can also use this to share a video you have taken with the group.

Once you have selected a photo, your screen will look like the one above. You can then press start and begin talking, just like you would with a normal message, but everyone will only see your photo. This is especially useful for people who like to polo in the bath tub or while otherwise indisposed, but remember the rule -members should be wearing clothes when they are seen.

The Green Arrow is showing you the ‘x’ that will allow you to close out of the picture if you have changed your mind or selected the wrong picture.

How Do I Send Private Polos? Who’s in My Group?

The Green Circle shows the name of the group and current number of members. If you tap there, then it will bring you to the menu shown on the right

Inside this menu, all of the group admins will be listed at the top, then you will find all of the other members listed alphabetically below. Please note that if the first letter of their name is an emoji, then they will be at the bottom of the list.

You will not have access to most of the items in this menu, so don’t worry about them

The Purple Arrow is showing you that if you wanted to send John a private message, all you have to do is tap on his name, and it will bring up a message that is just between the two of you.

The Red Circle with a Line shows that there is a duplicate group options. This will seriously annoy and confuse everyone in the group. NEVER USE THIS BUTTON! There could be some very real consequences if you ever use that button (self combustion, warts, losing every left shoe), so please just leave it alone and make your own group.

OH Crud! I Did NOT Mean to Say That!

Never fear, delete option is here! You can go back delete a message that you have sent. If you press and hold on the rectangle picture at the bottom of the message you created, then this menu will come up. Note that the option to “Delete” is Red.

Do Not Send Messages Without Permission – I will cover how to block this below, but please do not share messages that you did not create, unless you have the express permission of the person who shared it. The message was intended for the group that it was shared in and not for whoever you want to forward it to.

Saving Messages if a polo is particularly inspiring or meaningful to you, then you may save it For Personal Viewing ONLY. Remember you are building trust within a group of people where trust has been broken many times. Do not share saved messages without permission.

You Can Only Delete Your Own Messages. If you select to delete another member’s message, then it will be deleted from your personal feed. Everyone else will still be able to see and hear it. Feel free to remove any messages on your own feed you want. If there is a message that is particularly upsetting, please reach out to a group admin right away.

Marco Polo Overload!!

Be warned – Marco Polo and all the amazing people you will meet, can be addictive and you may experience FOMO. Our LDC team advocate that our Marco Polo groups are here to add to your life, not suck it out of you. Here are some ways to help manage your Polo time.

The Blue Arrow shows how many new messages there are in the corresponding group. This is seen on your main list of groups on the opening screen.

The Orange Circle and Arrow show you the three dots that you tap to pull up your options for each group. The picture on the right is showing what this menu looks like once you tap here.

The Green Circle shows where you can mark all of the new polos as watched. This is a great idea if you have gotten behind. This will bring you to the last polo message made, go back about 10 polos to find out where the conversation is at, and join right back in. YOU NEVER NEED TO WATCH ALL OF THE POLOS

The Purple Circle will allow you to add certain conversations or groups to your list of favorites, which will put their picture icon at the top of the page, where you see the Purple Bracket.

The Red Circle will make it so you will no longer get notifications on your phone whenever someone creates a new message in this group. That way your phone will not buzz at you so often.

The Settings Menu

The Orange Arrow and Circle show you where to tap to find the settings menu. The middle picture shows the menu that this pulls up for you.

The Blue Arrow is pointing to your name and picture. Tap here to edit your picture or how your name appears inside Polo. This is where you go to add emojis after your name.

The Red Arrow is pointing at where you tap to edit your privacy settings. The last picture shows the menu that this selection will pull up for you.

The Green Arrow shows what you should select if you would like to prevent others from being able to forward or save your polos.

Now you are all set to have some fun with this super little app. For more tips on Marco Polo group etiquette, check out our previous blog.

Marco Polo Groups Etiquette

Marco Polo Etiquette Blog Image

Marco polo is a fun, easy way to connect with people from all around the world. Taking the guess work out of deciphering the intonation behind a text message; Marco Polo video messaging app allows you to leave a short video message for your friends and you can go back and listen to their responses when it fits in to your busy life. To make the most of this fantastic connection tool, we have a few etiquette tips for you when participating in a group chat …

Don’t Hold Your Face Too Close to the Camera

Marco Polo Chat Close ShotOne of the greatest advantages to using Marco Polo is being able to see people’s facial expressions as they talk. Holding your device too close to your face gets you all up close and personal but not in a good way. Position your device back far enough so that your whole noggin fits comfortably in the middle of the screen.
Marco Polo voice only imageIf you are in a situation where it is better that you not be seen, then please use a photo while talking or do a voice polo.

Keep Your Polos brief

Marco Polo Better Shot Most of us are busy and only have so much time to listen to Marco Polo. It’s a lot easier for everyone to keep up if you keep your polos to under 60 seconds. If you’re having trouble, take a moment to organise your thoughts before hitting the start button. Another way to avoid overly long polos is to break up your message into multiple polos, one for each topic you wish to talk about. People watching can lose focus when a polo is longer than a full minute.
*Note: This etiquette rule does not necessarily apply when you are sending personal polos to individuals.

Limit Yourself to No More than 3 Polos in a Row

Too many Marco Polos in a rowWe want to hear from everyone. If you have sent three messages in a row, then wait for someone else to take a turn to say something, before you send another message. Reach out if you are finding you are having trouble waiting and we can help you find more groups. Sometimes you just need to share the love with another group for a while to let everyone else catch up for a bit.

Try to Stay on Topic

Marco Polo stay on topicThis is very much a group conversation. Imagine yourself sitting in a room with all of the people in the group. How would it feel if everyone is talking about their pets and suddenly someone shouts “I like reading mystery novels!”? It really wouldn’t make a lot of sense and it could be very jarring to the group (squirrel). Of course we want you to introduce new topics and feel free to change the topic, but do it in a natural way. A good rule of thumb is to be sure that you have acknowledged what has been talked about in the 2-3 polos previous to yours.

Be Kind

Marco Polo with John DrivingEveryone is at different points in our journey and we are here for love and support. We have all been torn down by others and by ourselves at different points in our lives. Our aim is to keep Latter Day Connections free from negativity. If you are concerned about something going on in a group, then please either approach that person individually to discuss respectfully, or reach out to one of the founders and we will be happy to look into the issue. Backbiting is uncalled for and assumptions only lead to more hurt. If you are unsure of the intention behind a comment, assume no offense was meant. Treating each other with kindness and respect is the best etiquette and at the very core of our campfire rules.

You Don’t Have to Listen to All of the Messages

Marco Polo with Grant skipping polosWe heartily encouraged a life outside of Polo-Land, so we understand that you wont be spending hours each day listening to polos. Think of it as a room of your friends that you leave and renter. You don’t have to know everything that was said in order to jump back in to the conversation. If you get behind in the group, simply mark all of the polos as watched, then listen to about the last 10 so you are up to speed and jump back into the conversation. It’s okay to skip ahead. If you do like to listen to all the polos, you can leave a ‘bubble’ as you go to comment on specific polos. This way you can be involved in the conversation as you go instead of trying to remember everything you wanted to say for when you do catch up.

Marco Polo provides the opportunity to connect with other people in a way that feels more lively, personal and connected than messages or text. With our etiquette tips, you are all set to go, so get polo-ing and have fun!